Sexual Assault Survivorship Blog
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Why We Can't Get Rid of Predators
Understanding how predators are created does not excuse their actions, but it does provide insight into prevention.
Every Parent's Blind Spot: Raising a Predator
It’s natural to believe “my child would never do that.” But ignoring the possibility is dangerous. Every predator was is someone’s child.
A Fellow Survivor’s Voice: You Are Not Alone
When we were met with compassion and understanding, our healing felt possible. When we weren’t believed, the hurt was devastating, creating shadows of shame and isolation we had to work hard to shake. But let’s remind ourselves: other people’s reactions do not define the truth of our experiences.
Doing the Work in Order to Work
Explore how trauma caused sexual assault or abuse can affect work life. In this week's GOTU blog post we dive into how support, self-care, and community help survivors improve wellness, reclaim confidence, and thrive. None of us is alone in this battle. And getting better while working is possible, one step at a time.
Consent, Consent, Consent
Enforcing requirements for consent consistently delivers the message that people aren’t entitled to us or our possessions. It also reinforces that we are prioritizing our own feelings, wants and needs over theirs. This messaging lets other people know that we understand our value.
What the ASMR?
Some mental health professionals believe that ASMR helps combat effects of [sexual assault] trauma, such as feelings of stress, anxiety and depression. We’ve dug into the topic.
The Value of Therapy
Therapy teaches participants how to survive the violence in a way that doesn’t require us to abandon ourselves. In fact, a good therapist teaches us how to tap into our authentic selves.
Safety #2: Why Children Won't Disclose SA
The initial thought, as a parent, is that children will disclose when they have been harmed. Unfortunately, this is not true. Children (not matter their age) will only disclose when they feel safe to do so. Here’s how you can help.
Safety #1: Understanding Sexual Violence
You are the first line of defense in protecting your children - physically, mentally, emotionally, and socially - from sexual abuse. This means educating yourself to reduce risks and creating an environment where they feel safe to speak up if something goes wrong.
How to be a Safe Space
It’s easy to think of yourself as a safe space, but you may be unintentionally causing harm. In this post, we’ll explore how to better support others and be more trustworthy.
Navigating Survivor Safety
In a world where the shadow of sexual violence looms, maintaining safety from predators is not just crucial—it's a vital part of a healthy survivorship journey.
7 Immediate Actions to Take After a Rape
There currently isn’t much, if any, information about what a victimized person can do to get help. So, the GOTU team compiled a sequential list of steps you can help a newly victimized person take to better ensure post-rape care.
The Invisibility of Survivorship
No more hiding! We, as sexual assault and abuse survivors, have a right to live out loud…publicly…without shame…trauma in hand…visible in our survivorship journeys.